Choosing the Right Dildo For You

Whether used during sex, as a masturbation tool, or for anal penetration, dildos are an important sexual toy for many people. There are countless shapes, sizes, and materials to choose from. Some even have different textures to play with, while others are curved for stimulation of the prostate or g-spot.

In fact, dildos have been around for thousands of years. In the Hohle Fels cave in Germany, researchers found a dildo that was 28,000 years old. Dildos are used by women, men, and transgender individuals of all sexualities. And while some dildos are meant to look like penises, others have no such design and can feel completely alien to the user.

The first reference to a dildo comes from Ancient Greece, when merchants sold a type of toy called an olisboi. The term was eventually shortened to dildo, and Renaissance Italy saw the first literary mention of a dildo in Pietro Aretino’s Dialogues 22, considered to be the first pornography.

Today, there are countless dildo options to choose from, including those designed for temperature and texture play, anal penetration (and pleasure), and anal safety. It can be overwhelming, but choosing the best dildo for you isn’t impossible. It just takes a little research and trial and error to find the dildo that’s right for you.

First, consider your desired intensity. Unlike a vibrator, most dildos don’t come with built-in vibrations, but can be easily attached to a vibrator for an extra kick of excitement. You can also opt for a silicone dildo that’s double-density to increase sensation, or a dual-ended dildo that allows for anal penetration as well.

While dildos are generally considered safe for most individuals, sex toy users still need to be careful with their hygiene. Because a dildo goes inside a bacteria-filled crevice, it’s vital to use plenty of lubrication to decrease friction and help prevent infection. Water-based lube is safe for most silicone toys, but you may want to try a silicon-based formula for longer lasting lubrication.

You should also keep in mind that you shouldn’t share your dildo, especially if you are unsure of its cleanliness. Infected dildos can transmit STIs, so make sure you keep track of who’s using it and when. Finally, don’t forget to clean your dildo after each use with either soap and water or a special toy cleaner. It’s the best way to prevent infection and prolong its lifespan. And of course, it’s always a good idea to lube up with some sexy lube as well!